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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
- National Competition on Worries! - National Competition on Worries!
I'll introduce today's guests.
He's a great actor, and he always gives a strong impression.
Please welcome Actor Kim Eung Soo.
(He's the actor who gets more charming each time.)
She's a cute comedian famous for broadcasting eating.
Please welcome Kim Min Kyoung.
They are the members of a handsome boy group...
that captures women's hearts. Astro's Moon Bin and Cha Eun Woo.
(Yes!)
They are handsome.
His face is so brilliant.
Don't do anything. Just stay there like a picture.
(I'll do all the work.)
Eung Soo is...
- a really good friend of mine. - Right.
We've been friends for over 20 years.
It's your first visit to Hello.
How is it? I heard...
you watched the previous episodes to prepare for today.
Yes.
- Do you have nothing to say? - I watched...
(Is he thinking?)
I watched the previous episodes, and I enjoyed them very much.
I see.
"I enjoyed them very much."
But our stories aren't that enjoyable.
There are many times when things get serious.
I'll tell you why I enjoyed it.
It's because...
I'm actually filled with worries too.
What are your worries?
The thing I hate hearing the most...
is that I should be a bad person because I often play a villain.
One time, I went to a Buddhist temple in my hometown,
and a bodhisattva there said,
"I wanted to kill you."
A bodhisattva told you that.
- She was so upset. - But she's a bodhisattva.
I said, "What are you talking about?"
On "Moon Embracing the Sun", I was cruel to...
- the character she liked. - Right.
You must want to act as someone good then.
I've done that many times.
But we didn't know.
- We didn't know. - No one remembers.
(He's a very flexible actor.)
- By the way, - Astro.
- Moon Bin. - I was surprised today...
when I was told...
that...
Moon Bin's mom...
once sent us a letter saying...
- He's problematic. - that she's worried about her son.
- She sent us a letter. - Did you do something wrong?
- Why did she do that? - I was shocked when I got the call.
I'm usually taciturn.
She used to say, "I'm going to send a letter to Hello."
And she really did it.
Perhaps did she do that...
- to make you more famous? - No.
She wanted to help him get more attention.
- No, that's not it. - She had a big picture.
I sleep a lot.
How much is a lot?
When I tell him to get up, he doesn't get up.
It takes me at least an hour to wake him up.
Goodness.
Even when we're in the subway or a bus, he sleeps like this.
I once had a friend like him too.
Whenever I said "Look at that girl,"
he woke up right away.
He woke up every time.
He woke up every time I said "Look at that girl."
Do you have any worries, Min Kyoung?
Now that I'm old, people tell me I should get married.
I've been single for 37 years.
Have you never been in a relationship?
That's right.
I'm too embarrassed to say it.
- But usually... - I'm better than her I guess.
I've dated 1 or 2 people.
I've kissed someone.
(Everyone laughs.)
I've kissed someone too.
- How many times? - We don't want to know it.
I've kissed someone too.
- How many times have you done it? - How many times...
Please stop!
(Let's consider it unsaid.)
We got three stories again. Let's check the keywords.
These are the three stories.
"I'm Sick of It". "An Embarrassing Worry".
"My Husband Is Possessed".
I don't think any of you would be able to put up with this.
Hello. I am a mother in her 50s,
who is unbelievably frustrated.
I have two grown-up sons.
They are 25 and 22. They're both adults.
But they don't say a word to each other.
"Mom, have you seen my shirt?"
"Did he take it?"
"Can you call him and ask him if he took my shirt?"
"You could call him and ask him yourself."
(Ringing)
"Mom, I got a parcel delivered. Tell Yong Ju to take it."
"You can tell him yourself. What's wrong with you two?"
They haven't been talking to each other...
for eight years.
- That's crazy. - And they are brothers.
The problem is...
that my husband and I retired to a farming village...
in Yeongju.
Our two sons live together in Bundang.
- And they call her. - And they don't talk.
- That's crazy. - Whenever something happens,
- It must drive her crazy. - I have to pass on messages...
between my two sons.
- That's what's happening now. - She's the messenger.
That's not all.
"Hello? Yong Ju."
"Your brother..."
"was down with high fever yesterday. How is he now?"
"I don't know."
Why are they worse than strangers to each other?
They are my most precious sons.
Please help them to start talking to each other again.
(She asked our help to get them talking to each other.)
They live together, but they don't talk to each other.
How can they not talk to each other?
It doesn't make sense.
This is not a man-made problem.
It's caused by nature.
It's caused by bad feng shui.
- Bad feng shui. - Bad feng shui.
That's what caused this problem.
- That makes sense. - He's got a point.
Let's bring her in and talk to her.
Let's bring our guest.
(Who's the mother worried about her two sons?)
(Kim Young Mi)
(Welcome!)
It says here that they haven't talked for eight years.
Your 1st son is 25 years old, and your 2nd son is...
- He's 22 years old. - 22 years old.
Then they started not talking when your first son was a sophomore.
- Your 2nd son was a 7th grader. - He was 17 years old.
So he must've been a high school sophomore.
When they are at home,
they look at each other as if they're just passersby.
When one boy comes out to the living room, the other leaves.
Even when they are by themselves in the house,
they live like that.
- What if they want to watch TV? - If one comes to the living room,
the other leaves even if he wants to stay.
When the other one comes out again, this one leaves again.
(They are like day and night.)
Do you know why they started not talking?
- Is there a reason? - I don't know.
I think they have been growing apart...
since the puberty. That's my guess.
- You are not sure. - No.
Were they like that even when you were living together?
- Right. - But...
how did you think of moving out when the boys were in bad terms?
- I don't get it. - I was worried about that at first.
So my husband moved first.
He moved first, but he was struggling to work alone.
He was struggling.
- Yes. So... - It was tough for him.
I moved to Yeongju.
But even when I am in Yeongju,
- I act as their messenger. - Goodness.
So they always call me.
If they can't find something they're looking for, they call me.
"Have you seen my hat?"
- That's crazy. - When the little one asks me that,
- I call... - But that's such a small problem.
- I call my first son... - How can you do that?
and ask if he's seen his brother's hat.
When he says that he hasn't seen it, I call my second son and tell him...
- that his brother hasn't seen it. - That's very wrong.
That's how they communicate.
Do they not know each other's phone number?
They don't know each other's phone number.
- Did you say they don't know? - They could ask you.
They are not interested to know.
They are not interested. Of course I gave them each other's number.
- That's crazy. - I gave it to them,
- but they are not interested. - Did they not save it?
I think it's partly her fault.
- She shouldn't do this for them. - Right.
Why do you act as the messenger? You could just hang up the phone.
I did that at first.
At first, I told them to figure it out by themselves.
One time they got a registered mail, but they didn't tell each other.
- So it got sent back. - It got sent back.
And that repeated for months.
- That's crazy. - Those things kept happening,
and they were a nuisance to other people.
So I started acting as a messenger between the two.
From what I heard, I am certain...
that something must have happened between them.
- Right. - Something must've happened.
- But what happened? - Right.
Let's talk to her sons. Hello.
(Who are her two sons?)
Let's meet them.
The first son should go first.
- They are very bubbly. - Please introduce yourself.
They are so handsome.
Please introduce yourself.
- Hello. - Are they brothers?
I am the first son.
(Is that it?)
So you are the first son.
Hello. I'm a 22-year-old from Bundang,
- and my name is Kwon Yong Ju. - That's the right way to do it.
(This is how you introduce yourself.)
Have you really not spoken to your brother for 8 years?
Yes.
But you live together. Isn't it inconvenient?
- Why do you not talk? - I know.
It is inconvenient.
But I feel more awkward with my brother than with a stranger.
- What? - He feels like a stranger to me.
It's been too long.
Do you not even call each other like this?
(He shows an example.)
Right. How do you call each other?
I don't call him.
- You don't call him. - What if there's no tissue?
- Will you call your mom? - And your brother is there.
- Will you call your mom? - Will you call your mom?
That never happened to me.
Why did that never happen?
It should've happened.
What if it happens? There's no tissue in the bathroom.
What will you do then? Your brother is just outside.
Then I would go outside.
- What? - I'd go outside.
He would come out naked.
You'd crawl on all fours.
- You'd crawl. - But your brother's outside.
- You could call him. - You could ask him to bring it.
I'd just open the door and get a tissue.
But isn't it too strange...
to crawl like this in front of your little brother?
It's...
It doesn't look good.
(How can you laugh?)
What do you think about your brother, Yong Ju?
Even if we run into each other outside, we don't say hi.
- You don't say hi. - I didn't even know...
that he was working.
- Oh my. - Did you find out today?
Didn't he tell you?
- He didn't tell him. - Just before coming here,
I found out that he's been working for 2 to 3 years.
I still don't know what kind of a company he works for.
I am not interested to know.
Let's say...
someone is trying to harm your little brother.
And he's looking at you. Only you can see the harasser.
- Then I'd call him. - How would you call him?
Will you say, "Hey!"
"Hey!"
"Hey, look out."
- "Move!" - What will you say?
- Will you call his name? - I'll say, "Hey!"
- "Hey!" - And then what?
"Watch out."
- "Watch out." - He will warn him.
What would you do, Yong Ju?
I'd just point.
- I'll point him to turn back. - You'll just point.
- He might not be able to see it. - Will you just point...
when there's fire?
Even then I don't think I'd call him.
- You wouldn't call him. - I wouldn't.
Let's say there's fire,
and your brother is asleep.
Then I'd call Mom.
What?
- Even when there's fire? - Oh, my gosh.
Does this make sense?
(The atmosphere is cold.)
How do you feel hearing that?
- It breaks my heart. - It's more than...
It's not like I can come right away.
If that happens, I won't be able to go on.
They have been...
- It's serious. - on bad terms for far too long.
What is this? What's wrong with them?
You said you are like strangers. Why do you call your mom...
and trouble her to deliver messages to each other?
It's awkward for me to talk to my brother.
And I'm afraid it will worsen our relationship.
So I thought it would be easier for both of us to talk through Mom.
- But that's what you think. - Right.
Have you thought about how your mom would feel?
- She must be heartbroken. - You are terrible sons.
That's why I call her...
only when there's something very urgent or important.
Is finding your hat that important?
- Or why don't you... - Do you not know his number?
- I don't know his number. - I don't know his either.
Is it so tough to ask, "Where is my hat?"
I just don't like getting involved with him.
- You must feel very uncomfortable. - Right.
- It must be so inconvenient. - It must be inconvenient.
It's inconvenient...
when I am alone and...
he brings his friends home.
- Right. - It's inconvenient when...
they drink or eat in the living room.
He often brings his girlfriend home too.
Goodness.
It's a woman problem.
How is it a woman problem? He just brings her home.
They both like her.
Why are you writing a novel?
He's upset that she's seeing his little brother.
I was naked, and he came in with his girlfriend.
I couldn't go out like that, so I just stayed in my room.
When she's there, I can't use the restroom...
or eat in the kitchen.
Do you bring your girlfriend home too?
I've never done that.
- Then you could... - Right.
- tell him not to bring her home. - Right.
Talking to him...
is like talking to an ex-girlfriend.
And you live with your ex-girlfriend.
(They are brothers that are unlike brothers.)
You two are already in bad terms.
Don't you think it's wrong for you to do that?
Are you doing that intentionally to make him feel uncomfortable?
I didn't know that he was uncomfortable with it.
Whenever I bring my friends or my girlfriend home,
they greet him with respect.
But he just goes into his room and doesn't greet them back.
Have you never had a meal together?
Never.
Even when our family eats out,
we sit away from each other, and we don't talk to each other.
We have never eaten together.
- Even when you're with... - Let's hear from Yong Ju.
We had never eaten a meal together.
When he takes out fried chicken, he could share it with me.
But he takes it to his room and eats it alone.
- It's because of fried chicken. - Fried chicken is the problem.
Did he do that?
- It's because of fried chicken. - It's because of fried chicken.
It was because of fried chicken.
Who buys the household items?
Whoever needs it buys it.
But usually our parents buy them for us.
No. I bought all of those.
- Is that right? - It wasn't your parents?
They didn't buy those. I buy them whenever we run out of them.
My brother doesn't bother buying them even when we run out of them.
But he thinks your mom has been buying them.
Is that right?
I thought my parents bought them. I've never seen him bringing them.
He's the one who bought all of them.
Thank him for all the household items you've been using.
(It's awkward for him to even look at his brother.)
He won't say it.
- He won't say it. - Right.
Who does the chores? There must be garbage to throw out, and...
I do all the dishes, cleaning, and laundry.
All right.
- Do you... - Does he just eat chicken?
Do you do your brother's laundry too?
He throws his dirty clothes in the laundry basket.
- I wash them all. - You wash his clothes.
- He's good. - Because I always do everything,
I became fed up. So I told my mom about it once.
So she told him to...
take turns every week.
But he doesn't clean even when the place is trashed.
I wait until I have to do it.
But whenever I put out dirty clothes, they were gone.
So...
You were enjoying it.
That's why you don't do it.
Do you want to live separately? What do you think?
When I was 20,
I didn't want to live with him, so I left home for six months.
- But it was too tough. - Right.
And it cost me a lot of money. So I moved back in.
I'd move out as soon as I save up enough.
- Right. - How was it...
when he was gone?
- Was it uncomfortable? - Not at all.
I thought he joined the army.
- The army? - That's what I thought.
You thought he joined the army, but he came home after six months.
What did you think then?
I wondered why he came home so early.
That's crazy.
So he didn't even bother to ask.
(What's wrong with him?)
Let's hurry up and...
- ask them what happened. - Let's ask the reason.
Honestly, whose fault do you think it is that this happened?
Whose more at fault?
I was...
waiting for him to talk to me first.
- He waited. - You waited for him to talk to you.
But you could've talked to him first.
I was afraid that it was...
- It hurt his ego. - going to make matters worse.
- It's been a long time. - I was afraid that it was...
going to be more awkward if he ends the conversation.
Let's ask the first son. Whose fault do you think it is?
I don't know why this happened.
You don't know why.
I have a brother who's four years older than me.
We were already on bad terms, and he went abroad to study.
So we didn't talk for a long time.
I had a chance to talk to him after his discharge.
It was annoying because he didn't remember.
He didn't even remember how he tormented me.
That's what made me think,
"I won't see him anymore."
Then we had to live together for a while.
The misunderstanding between us cleared up...
when the opportunity made me talk and feel thankful.
I don't know how they went so many years without talking.
(What had happened to them?)
Yong Ju, how did this start?
It started...
when my brother was in eighth grade.
I had bought some gummies to bring to school.
(Serious)
(Gummies?)
You had bought gummies.
My brother took it to school without a word.
He took the gummies without a word.
I was going through puberty and got upset.
I sent him a text message full of swear words.
- You sent swear words. - I sent swear words.
Instead of talking to me about it,
he told Mom.
Because of that,
I received a severe scolding and a beating.
(He was scolded.)
It left a scar in his heart.
Do you remember receiving a text full of swear words?
There were a lot of swear words...
in the text I received at school.
My original plan was to give him a beating.
However, I realized when I got home...
that a fight will get me into trouble.
That's why I showed the text to Mom.
Did you know why he had sent that text?
I didn't know. Since there were a lot of swear words,
I closed the text.
(He didn't even know why his brother had sent it.)
Did you read the text later?
No, I didn't.
You should have figured out why your brother swore.
Seriously.
My brother was going through puberty.
(Did he blame it on puberty?)
- He suddenly swore at you. - Puberty has nothing to do with it.
Puberty has nothing to do with it.
(Frustrated)
What kind of swear words did you use?
"Don't call yourself an older brother."
(He crossed the line.)
- It's no wonder he was angry. - There were dog-related words.
There were animal-related words.
How would you have felt if your brother had scolded you...
directly?
Had we had a fist fight,
I would have realized my mistake.
Then I would have apologized and we would have made up.
However, he told Mom.
- He got upset. - He received...
a scolding.
- Ma'am. - He got upset.
He wanted to have a conversation between men.
Did you know that gummies had caused...
- all of this? - It became known today.
- You had no idea. - No.
There were no explanations regarding the situation.
He only said that his brother swore at him.
I scolded Yong Ju severely for being rude...
- to his older brother. - You couldn't let it slide.
- No. - You saw the swear words.
- The same thing happened to me. - Really?
I had rented comic books with my money.
I had to return them after I was done.
He beat me up for returning them.
- Why? - He hadn't read them.
He got upset because he hadn't read them.
- You borrowed them. - I got so upset.
I swore at him.
Instead of talking to me,
he told on me to Mom and Dad.
It left a big scar in my heart.
Getting scolded by yourself made you angry.
That's right.
Here is what I think.
Gummies were the direct cause,
but there must be other incidents.
There is more, right?
It wasn't the gummies themselves.
I had thought on many occasions that my parents favor my brother.
They favor your brother. What made you feel that way?
When it comes to clothes,
they buy my brother new clothes...
and make me wear the clothes he passes down.
That's perfectly reasonable.
- Young people don't think that way. - It's different these days.
It's strange that they blame everything on puberty.
Stop being a grumpy old man!
Seriously.
I didn't do anything wrong.
Before you enter the military,
- you eat... - They blame everything on puberty.
You eat delicious food.
Before my brother entered the military,
my family ate ribs.
I had a toast on my way to the training center.
- It leaves a scar. - That must have been upsetting.
- Is there more? - Tell us everything.
When we moved 3 or 4 years ago,
both my brother and I asked for a new bed.
I thought they had refused,
but in my brother's room was a new bed.
Did you sleep on the floor?
That incident hurt my feelings.
That's understandable.
- He has a lot of emotional scars. - My goodness,
what kind of a question is that?
- He is such a grumpy old man. - What did he say?
I didn't hear him.
Upon hearing that Yong Ju didn't get a new bed,
he asked, "Did he not get good grades?"
For goodness' sake.
He is a grumpy old man.
Seriously.
You shouldn't have done that.
A new bed and the floor are two different things.
- They are too different. - Why did she do that?
When my younger son asked for a bed because of his back pain,
I didn't think much of it.
Then my older son asked for a bed because of his back pain.
I don't know why, but I bought it right away.
Ma'am.
- That's upsetting. - That's upsetting.
They must have gotten different grades.
- It's no wonder Yong Ju was upset. - I know.
A bed...
is an important piece of furniture.
Before they entered the military, the older son had ribs...
while the younger son had a toast.
Were you busy?
It's not like that. To me,
everything that happens to my older son is a first.
It's an experience I have for the first time as a parent.
When my younger son does something, I have already experienced it.
That's why...
It was Yong Ju's first time entering the military.
- That's right. - It wasn't his second time.
You don't even realize your favoritism.
There are brothers who get along.
What comes to your mind when you see them?
It's fascinating to see brothers who get along.
It does make me a bit envious.
When I see my friends get along and drink...
with their siblings,
I become a bit envious.
Do you drink?
- Yes. - What about the older brother?
I don't drink.
(My goodness.)
Why don't you drink? Is it that you can't drink?
I can't drink. It doesn't agree with my body.
It doesn't agree with your body.
Does it agree with your body, Yong Ju?
Yes, it does.
All right.
Your younger brother hasn't sworn at you since adolescence.
He badmouthed me a lot...
to his friends.
- It happened afterwards. - Did he do that to his friends?
- Yes. - What did he say?
There were a lot of swear words.
Basically, he told his friends...
that he is stronger than me.
The younger brother has a problem, too.
He has no respect for his older brother.
We have to remember...
that the family revolved around the older brother.
When Yong Ju grew in size in adolescence,
he must have thought, "I might win against him."
I think that's why he mistreated his brother.
When I told my friends about what my brother had done,
they badmouthed him. It made me use swear words.
Why did your friend tell your brother about it?
That's what I am talking about.
- Why did he do that? - Who told you about it?
I think I heard it from his friend.
Why did he tell your brother?
Seriously.
I don't remember because I had told a lot of my friends.
(It's serious, but funny.)
Let's talk to their father.
- Hello. - Hello.
- Hello. - Is he their father?
He is their father.
How does listening to them make you feel?
I thought the quarrels were related to puberty at first.
That's why I didn't interfere.
I had no idea they carried hard feelings...
in their hearts.
Listening to them now makes me flustered.
You could have sat them down and said,
"You shouldn't do that to each other."
- Didn't you think about doing that? - In the past, I had hopes...
that they will be good brothers who depend on each other.
It made me very happy.
I thought things would return to normal...
after puberty.
I was waiting for them to fix the problem.
What were they like in the past?
You must have been very happy.
They could chat for days.
When they were in a room together, I could hear laughter.
When my younger son struggled...
in the hills or the mountains,
- my older son helped him. - My goodness.
They held hands and played together.
They were attached at the hip.
You are talking about your own sons, right?
Yes. They were kind to each other.
My younger son loves physical affection.
When his brother was next to him,
- he would shower him with kisses. - They were very close.
That's how close they were.
Let's see how close they were in the past.
- We have pictures. - Really?
- They must look cute. - Let's see the pictures.
- How cute! - They are attached to each other.
- They must look cute. - Let's see the pictures.
(How cute!)
They are attached to each other.
Yong Ju only has eyes for his brother.
He loved his brother.
My goodness.
(How cute!)
- They are cute. - My goodness.
- My goodness. - How cute!
- They were so close. - They were attached to each other.
They had a good relationship back then.
How does looking at the pictures make you feel?
It's fascinating.
- It is, right? - Yong Ju, how does it feel?
You kissed your older brother.
When you are young, you can't live without your siblings.
Back then, I liked my brother so much...
that I wanted to do everything he does.
- I liked my brother very much. - Did you like him the most?
- I liked him the most. - Of course you did.
- Of course you did. - It's like that.
It's about time you stop making your parents worried.
It's stupid to think that talking first...
- makes you the loser. - That's right.
The older brother should call the younger brother...
as he had in the past.
You should do it on the stage.
(That would be better.)
- It will bring you closer. - That's right.
It will bring you closer.
You can do it.
Share the love you received from your mom.
- That's right. - The older brother should go first.
Hold hands.
- Shake hands. - They won't make an eye contact.
Hold hands.
(Yong Ju pulls his hand back.)
You need to make an eye contact.
(Holding)
Look at each other in the eyes.
(They feel very awkward.)
Look at each other in the eyes.
- Look at each other in the eyes. - That's right.
Call each other's name.
You know your brother's name, right?
Call his name.
He doesn't know the phone number, but he knows the name.
You should exchange phone numbers today.
Yong Ju.
(Yong Ju...)
- His name is Yong Ju. - It's a nice name.
- Yong Ju. - Answer your brother.
Hey.
- Good job. - This is nice.
(Why was it so hard to say this word?)
- All right. - Say something.
Say what you want to each other.
Say what you want to each other. I know it's not easy.
That's right.
I am sorry that I was immature when I was younger.
You are cool.
Since we are adults now,
let's not make our parents worried.
Let's be filial sons.
The younger brother is mature.
(He is touched.)
The older brother should reply.
That's right.
I never hated you.
It's just that I felt awkward.
- That's right. - Let's have a meal together.
That's nice. Give each other a hug.
- That was great. - Give each other a hug.
- How nice! - Wait a minute.
Please pull up the picture from their childhood.
(Do you mean this picture?)
He was posing like this.
It's not hard to pose like you did in the picture.
It would be better to take it all the way.
- That's right. - It will improve the situation.
- That's right. - Look at the picture.
(Reply)
- That's the picture. - Recreate the picture.
That's right.
Pose like you did in the picture.
We should have done this sooner.
Look at your brother.
(They look like they did in the past.)
Let's move on to the next picture.
This is exciting.
- Let's do this. - Kiss your brother on the cheek.
Kiss your brother on the cheek.
- Kiss your brother on the cheek. - It's a masterpiece.
- Kiss your brother on the cheek. - That's right.
In 1, 2, 3.
(Be close from now on.)
You should reciprocate.
Sir, you should come here.
He is crying. Please come here.
- There are tears in his eyes. - He is tearing up.
- The family suffered for no reason. - I know.
- Why was this so hard? - There are tears in his eyes.
He is crying.
- Give him a hug. - Be nice to your parents.
My goodness.
Let's stay close.
How nice!
This is great.
How do you feel?
I saw a side of them I haven't seen in a long time.
I hope they will stay close from now on.
I will be sure to listen to my younger son...
from now on.
Let's love each other and live happily. I love you.
(Let's love each other and live happily.)
- Eun Woo, press the button. - Do you think it's a worry?
I paid a lot of attention to this worry...
because my brother is studying abroad in China.
- Do you miss him? - He arrived in Korea today.
I couldn't go to the airport to greet him.
Thinking about his brother made him emotional.
Did he forget Korean?
Gosh. 1, 2, 3, 4.
It may not be favoritism,
but you do pay more attention to your older son.
If the mom looks after her older son,
the older brother should look after his younger brother.
I think it will improve the siblings' relationship.
Tell your brother that you love him.
- Which camera should I look at? - You can look anywhere.
Look at the camera.
You can look anywhere because it won't air.
(It won't air.)
I love you very much.
(I love you very much.)
- As an older brother myself, - Do you think it's a worry?
I think it's a worry.
- You don't think it's a worry. - You don't think it's a worry.
I used to find my older sister very scary.
Things have changed now that I am old.
Even though I have a lot of friends and people I like,
I wouldn't change my sister for them.
- They don't compare. - That's what I think.
That's why I don't think it's a worry.
If you sympathize with her and think it's a worry,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Time's up. - Stop.
Show us the result.
(The result)
("I'm Sick of It")
- Will it go over 100? - Will it go over 100?
It went over 100.
Even though they made up in the end,
it's still a worry for their mom.
128.
(128 votes)
Love shot! Love shot!
(This is a video clip friends took at the after-party.)
You need to practice.
Do the love shot. Say something first.
(Even though they still feel awkward,)
(we hope they will become close.)
"My Husband Is Possessed".
It's not "pressured".
You become pressured when you are possessed.
(You become pressured when you are possessed.)
Hello, I am a housewife in her 30s who lives in Busan.
I am sick and tired of life.
She is sick and tired of life.
What is happening in her life that she is sick and tired of it?
It's all thanks to my husband,
who looks at one thing from the moment he wakes up.
(Her husband?)
"I can't live without it."
"It will be a disaster if I don't take a look now."
"It's a part of my body."
He is completely crazy.
Do you know what he is crazy for? It's game.
(He is addicted to games.)
- He is crazy for games. - He is addicted.
(A sense of foreboding is never proven wrong.)
- He has two smartphones, - Goodness.
- two tablet PCs, - My goodness.
and a game console.
The worst thing happened when we had our first child.
"Honey, the baby is coming out."
"The baby will come out soon."
"Honey? Honey, where are you?"
"Honey, where are you?"
(Is someone there?)
He was playing a game.
(Did you have the mind to play the game?)
That's the worst.
- That memory will last forever. - After I gave birth,
he downloaded games on the computer at the postnatal care center.
The computer at the postnatal care center?
- He played games all day long. - That's unbelievable.
He is completely out of his mind.
(Are you out of your mind?)
What should I do about him?
Please stop my husband. That's the worry,
(Please stop my husband.)
Min Kyoung, what are your thoughts?
When my friends and I talk about men,
we compare Song Joong Ki who is addicted to games...
and Yoo Min Sang who never plays games.
- My answer is... - In 1, 2, 3.
Song Joong Ki.
(I would choose Song Joong Ki.)
(Song Joong Ki will forever be in our hearts.)
- Song Joong Ki. - My goodness.
Everyone burst out laughing.
Had my dad done that when my mom was giving birth...
Would you have hit him?
I would have scolded him the moment I was born.
Let's invite her to the stage.
Please come on out.
(Who is worried about a husband who is addicted to games?)
(Kim Bong Sun)
Please hold my hand. The ball pool is deep.
Please introduce yourself.
Hello, I am Kim Bong Sun.
Kim Bong Sun.
Please tell us how bad...
your husband's addiction is.
I have seen a few episodes of Hello on game addicts.
There have been a lot.
To my husband, game is a part of his body.
He doesn't stop except for the time he sleeps.
- He doesn't stop playing games. - No.
As soon as he wakes up, he checks what happened during the night.
Then he gets ready for work in the restroom.
He plays games when he uses the toilet...
- and takes a shower. - He checks up on them.
He wouldn't be able to take a thorough shower.
I bet he washes half-heartedly.
- How long has this been going on? - When we were dating...
I would say about 10 years.
(He has been addicted to games for 10 years.)
- You endured it for a long time. - 10 years?
10 years.
You said that he uses different devices.
Which game goes he play?
If there is a new game, he has to try it.
He plays a great number of games.
He doesn't focus on one game like the others.
- He plays various games. - He jumps from one to another.
He played games even when he got cast on the arm.
How did he do that?
He got cast on the arm like this.
I guess he could move his fingers because he played games.
(Flustered)
Do you know when he became addicted to games?
He was already addicted when we were dating.
I realized it was bad...
when he bought a handheld game console.
He had no money to go to work.
I thought he would change after a marriage and a child.
- He had no money to go to work? - That's right.
Does that mean you spent the night with him?
My goodness.
(I got you.)
That's what we can deduce.
My goodness.
Why did you ask her that?
Am I the only one who wants to know?
You invaded her privacy.
- My goodness. - My goodness.
I am sorry.
He didn't change after the marriage.
The marriage became the biggest mistake of my life.
Let's meet the husband.
Hello.
It's nice to meet you.
(Who is addicted to games?)
- You heard your wife. - Yes.
Do you understand her worry?
I never thought it was a worry.
- Put yourself in your wife's shoes. - Are you serious?
Who doesn't play games these days?
- Not like you. - People do play games.
People don't play games to that extent.
A married husband and a father?
I am sure a lot of people are worse than me.
Which games do you play?
(Let's check.)
(He plays most of the popular games.)
I prefer games that lets the characters hunt automatically.
I set up the alarm.
Every time a new game is released, I receive an alarm.
When I preorder a game,
I receive an advantage in events and such.
Let me ask him a question...
to figure out how good he is.
- I'm just curious. - Go ahead and ask him.
- You play this game, right? - Yes, I do.
What's your tier in ranking match?
I'm Diamond.
- What does that mean? - Is he good?
- Tell us. - I'd like to play it with you.
- Pardon? - "I'd like to play it with you."
- He's really good. - I see.
(He's just excited.)
As far as I know, it costs a lot...
- to play RPG games. - You need to buy many game items.
- Game CDs are expensive. - That's right.
- I also need equipment. - Right.
I have to buy motion sensor, a gun,
and a steering wheel for car racing games.
- To buy all of these, - That's just an excuse.
it costs between 6,000 and 7,000 dollars.
- Between 6,000 and 7,000 dollars? - In 1 month?
No, not in a month.
- You could've bought books instead. - To buy equipment.
- Gosh. Why do you play games? - Exactly.
I tend to get hooked on things...
once I find them interesting.
I think my father influenced me.
- Why do you blame your father? - He likes...
to play billiards.
That's a healthy activity.
- It's a healthy game. - He has a serious problem too.
- Does he? - Yes.
He went out to play billiards on his wife's birthday...
and on the day of our house-warming party.
(Her father-in-law is similar to her husband.)
- You play games too much. - He should moderate gaming time.
Even when you eat with your family,
you play games instead of talking to them.
- Exactly. - Don't you think that's abnormal?
I haven't thought of it that way.
I've never felt guilty about it.
When I can't play games,
I feel like I'm falling behind.
You're addicted to games.
- You're seriously addicted. - Let's say...
your wife keeps watching movies and dramas...
- on her phone all the time. - Okay.
She doesn't care if you come home or eat.
How would you feel?
I would be angry.
You're allowed to do it, but your wife isn't?
I think it's a difference between our positions.
- That's ridiculous. - How are you at work?
What do you mean by that?
I run a mobile phone store.
When I was watching the store by myself,
I played video games.
I made a mistake in receiving payment,
- so I compensated 500 dollars. - How much?
- 500 dollars? - Yes.
I worked with him for two years.
He kept play games on two phones.
- While he was working? - Instead of a video game console,
he used two phones.
If he was like that at work, he must be worse...
on holidays or his family members' birthdays.
He doesn't care even when we're with the elders.
He's the same when we go to our parents' places.
When we visit my parents,
he plays games in an empty room maybe because he's embarrassed.
I was so surprised when I saw him bow...
like this when my mom walked in.
(He greeted his mother-in-law rudely.)
- Show me again. - Like this.
- He greeted her like this. - That's how he greeted her?
I wished I could just slap him on the back of his head.
- That's too much. - He must play games...
- even during memorial service. - Exactly.
How does he act when he visits his parents? subtitles ripped and synced by riri13
His parents don't care because he's their son.
Do they adore him?
- He's not adorable, you know. - My goodness.
"He's not adorable."
My wife is the eldest child of her parents.
I believe that the eldest daughter's husband should be quiet.
I should just be there quietly.
Being quiet is one thing,
- playing games is another. - Exactly.
That's why I play games secretly in an empty room.
- That's just an excuse. - He's right. It's an excuse.
- He's right. - Can't you stop it for a while?
I tried, but I couldn't.
- He's addicted to games. - I couldn't wait...
to play games as I didn't know what happened.
There must be a reason for your addiction. Do you...
get stressed out easily at work?
No. That's not it.
Do you get stressed out by something else?
In fact, I wanted to send my story.
- Sorry? - What?
My wife loves drinking.
She drinks 360 days out of 365 days in a year.
- I sensed it when she drank water. - Me too.
- She has that vibe. - Right?
(When she drank water,)
(she turned around and drank it all at once!)
(She even wiped the cup.)
My goodness.
That's not all. She gets hammered every time she drinks.
- I have to take care of her, - She does?
- and clean the house. - Switch the seats with him.
He must be out of his mind.
That's enough.
- It's true that I like drinking, - Okay.
but I get stressed out too.
I'm not a stay-at-home mom. I have a job.
He doesn't do any house chores or look after our child.
- Really? - It feels like I'm serving a king.
I'm better than him at nailing things to the wall.
He can't do it, and he won't do it for me.
When I have to rearrange furniture like a fridge or sofa,
I have to do it all by myself.
Even when he sees me crawling because I'm sick,
he doesn't stop playing games.
When our child was hospitalized for enteritis,
he played games in the hospital.
Not long after giving birth to my daughter,
I left home with the newborn baby...
- to show him how stressed I was. - You left home?
I meant to stay at a motel,
but she cried too much. She wasn't cooperative.
So I went back home.
He was playing a video game.
He wasn't looking for you?
The moment I saw the game scene on the monitor,
I got so angry and said,
"Don't you worry when I went out with our baby?"
"Weren't you even looking for us? How could you play the game?"
- What did he say? - He said, "Where would you go..."
"with a newborn baby?"
She told you about the time when our child was sick.
To be honest,
I never got sick when I was a child.
I never got sick.
So I couldn't understand.
- She was sick. - I didn't understand why.
- Why do you need to understand it? - Why can't you understand it?
I couldn't see why she got sick.
That's ridiculous.
What about when your wife was sick?
My wife is quite healthy.
- She's strong. - She had the flu.
He thought she was faking it.
I thought she would get better soon.
Did you hear that?
- He's so indifferent. - Exactly.
- She must be distressed. - He must've made her sad often.
- I cried a lot. - His daughter is so adorable,
- but he prefers to play games. - As any other woman would be,
it was hard especially when I was pregnant and had my baby.
I went to the hospital to give birth.
I was in so much pain that I was crying.
However, I could hear the gaming sound effects.
I could hear him playing a game.
I looked at him, and he was playing a game as I expected.
While I was in a postnatal class,
he installed a game on the computer in the postnatal care center.
- He was playing a game in there. - That's crazy.
(He was playing a game in the postnatal care center!)
I suffered from severe mastitis.
- It's very painful. - Oh, you know that.
- It was really painful. - My wife suffered from it too.
- It hurt worse than the labor. - She had severe mastitis too.
It was even more painful than the labor.
I asked him to bring some towels from home for a massage.
- He should bring them. - He yelled, "How can I go out now?"
I had to use the socks he was wearing...
for a massage, and I did it on my own.
(She had a massage with the socks he was wearing.)
- Sir. - Yes?
- You could've found a towel... - He should've found a way.
somewhere else.
There's a misunderstanding.
That day, there was a blizzard in Busan.
I almost had a car accident...
while driving downhill.
That's why I told her that I couldn't go out.
Other moms there could have had extra towels.
- I was inconsiderate. - You could've found a way.
- You could've told a nurse. - He admitted it.
Is it that you were inconsiderate or you didn't love her enough?
I think I was inconsiderate.
I want to make it clear.
My wife is my top priority.
I say this to my daughter all the time.
I was too young back then.
I didn't know what mastitis is.
You know that men don't breastfeed.
How would I know what mastitis is?
- Listen to me. - He keeps making excuses.
- I didn't know what it was either, - I see.
but I could tell how painful it was.
So I asked her what I could do as any man would normally do.
I didn't know...
- She was suffering... - He keeps saying that.
- right in front of you. - How could you not know that?
- She was in pain. - You're not making any sense.
- Let me ask you one thing. - Okay.
Even though you didn't give birth, you must've heard...
- that it is painful to have a baby. - Right.
You were playing games while she was in labor.
I was holding her hands beside her,
and I got bored, so I played a game for a while.
He said he was bored.
You must've heard your wife moan in pain.
Yes, I went up to her and tell her that she'd be okay,
and she could get through it.
- He's so sly. - He makes me angry.
Your husband just told us...
that you're his top priority.
How did you feel?
- It sounded ridiculous. - It sounded ridiculous?
It didn't warm your heart?
As we're a married couple, and I'm a woman,
I asked him to refrain himself in our bedroom.
When he plays games, it feels like I'm not attractive to him anymore.
He acted differently when we were dating.
I don't think I understand what you mean.
When I nag him,
he plays a game under the blanket.
- Under the blanket? - I complained I couldn't sleep.
There must be a lot of things to discuss with him.
When I try to discuss issues like our child's education,
he tells me to do as I want.
When I ask him what to eat at a restaurant,
he tells me to order whatever I want.
- She'll decide after all. - I see.
We talked about our thoughts on parenting.
I asked if he wasn't worried she might start using...
a smart phone and computer when she turns three.
He said there's no kid who doesn't use a smart phone,
and it can be more dangerous without one.
The problem is that our daughter...
is doing the same as her dad.
- She uses a smart phone? - When they're home alone,
all they do is play with a smart phone.
- That's not good. - When I go home,
she asks me for my phone instead of greeting me.
- She asks for my phone always. - As soon as she sees you?
She plays with a phone wherever we are.
- That's a problem. - I feel like I'm stupid.
You know how they say children are mirrors of their parents,
and children learn behind their parents.
Let's talk to their daughter. Hi.
- Hi. - Say hello.
- Hello. - What is your name?
- How old are you? - I'm Lee Seo Young. I'm seven.
(It's nice to meet you.)
Does your dad...
play games or play with his phone very often?
- Yes, he does. - I see.
How do you feel when he does?
- Do you want to play a game too? - Yes.
Do you like it when your dad is playing a game or not?
I don't like it.
- You don't? - You don't?
You don't like it? Why?
I want to play outside,
but I can't because my dad plays games.
Do you prefer playing outside to playing games at home?
Yes, I do.
- It's okay. - What do you want to tell your dad?
Tell him what you want.
- Look at him and tell him. - Look at me.
Dad, I want you to play games and smoke less.
- Play games and smoke less. - Okay.
- He smokes too? - Oh, he's a heavy smoker too.
- Does he smoke too? - I don't smoke that much.
(Be careful!)
How do you feel now that you've heard your daughter?
She said what she wants to do with you.
She told me that a few times before.
She asked me to play with her...
instead of smoking and playing games.
I told her I would,
but I didn't keep my word.
- You can play with her for a while. - It's not a big deal.
Can't you stop playing games for a while?
Well, I can't... I feel anxious when I'm not playing games.
Do you think it's okay that your daughter...
plays with a phone?
When I went home...
and saw Seo Young acting exactly like me,
I realized that it's not right. I thought of it a lot recently.
I tried to get of rid of my habits,
- It's not easy. - but I couldn't.
- I think he's seriously addicted. - Me too.
When does he seem really addicted?
He once lost his phone.
He lost it at a late hour.
He searched the same place several times,
and suspected some people on the street of stealing his phone.
- He even suspected strangers? - Yes, he did.
He said he was sure, but he couldn't prove it.
- He has a problem. - Even when driving...
- Even when driving? - Yes. Even when driving,
he keeps playing games.
When he's stopping at red light,
he checks on the game.
- Also, - That's dangerous.
he bought a cake for my birthday only once.
He put the cake on the table.
He could've stopped for a while,
but he went on playing a game while singing a birthday song.
(Shocking)
I think he bought a cake just because my friend was visiting.
- That's too harsh. - That's too much.
He can't pay attention even for a moment.
Playing games while driving is too dangerous.
Tae Gyun, please tell us...
about gaming addiction.
- Obviously, he's addicted. - He's seriously addicted.
If your addiction continues,
you may experience anxiety and depression.
- Are you experiencing that too? - It can lower your self-esteem,
which can lead to more serious addiction.
Especially in cases of children like your daughter,
the addiction can damage the big part of the brain that deals with...
self-control and self-restraint. She might not grow into a stable person.
- It affects communication skills... - Of course.
and learning ability too.
It may have a very negative effect on your child.
We asked you before...
why you didn't care that your daughter was sick.
You said it was because you didn't get sick as a child.
You said you didn't have mastitis.
If you can't see the pain your closest people go through,
you will never empathize with other people.
- If you cause a car accident, - That's too dangerous.
you may hurt someone's hard working dad...
and his loving family members.
Have you ever thought...
that your wife and child who are most important to you...
might be hurt because of the moment you were distracted?
(Sighing)
I haven't thought about it, but I'll start giving it a thought.
- You have to... - You might not have noticed,
- treat your addiction. - but this is...
his angry face.
He is very angry.
Why don't you make a specific promise...
- to your wife? - Make a vow.
- Okay. - When you're...
alone with her at home, it's hard to say things like that.
- That's why she came on the show. - It's hard to have a conversation.
Make a promise to her here.
Promise to play games no more than certain amount of time.
I'd be lying if I say I'll cut down on playing games right away.
You should do that immediately.
When I come home after work,
I'll play games only for 1 to 2 hours.
I'll spend more time with my family on my days off.
- Only between 1 and 2 hours a day? - Yes.
Do you think he can keep his promise?
- Only 2 hours a day. - He said 2 hours a day.
- Honestly, I don't think he can. - Right?
He deleted all the games from his computer once.
It turned out he kept his accounts.
He didn't lose anything he accomplished in games.
I just want him to see me and our daughter...
instead of playing video games,
and ask how our days were.
I want him to spend more time with his family.
He's too busy playing games to look at his family.
I will try to make it possible...
- You should say you'll do it. - That's not good enough.
I will do that.
Let's start with Eun Woo. Do you think it's a worry?
- I think... - You're very angry now, right?
- Yes, I am. - He's very angry.
Playing one game alone takes...
a great deal of time and effort.
If you make that much effort for your family,
- you'll make the happiest family. - That's right.
He's right.
I think it's a worry too.
You said there are many people whose addiction is...
more serious than yours.
If you keep going on like this, I think you may become like them,
or your addiction might become more severe than theirs.
If you didn't stop it because you didn't realize,
you should stop it now because you know that it's wrong.
That's right.
I'm so angry.
It's definitely a worry.
Just quit it without asking for a reason.
- You should quit it. - Stop playing games right now.
Don't ask why.
Sir, start raising your own child instead of your game character.
That's perfect.
(Start to level up your family's happiness from now on!)
Voting starts now.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Stop!
Are you addicted to pressing the button?
- Please say a word to your wife... - Just once.
looking into her eyes as you're not playing a game.
- I saw her shed tears. - It's been a while, right?
Yes. He doesn't look at me when I talk to him.
Look into each other's eyes. Ready, go.
I think this is a good chance...
to reflect on myself.
I didn't realize how serious my problem was.
I can't quit it at once,
but I'll try my best.
Let's become happy together. I love you,
Bong Sun and Seo Young.
(I'll try my best to stop playing games.)
Please show us the result.
I'm sure she's first place.
"My Husband Is Possessed".
Look at that. The numbers change very fast.
- 163. - 153.
She's on top!
(153 votes)
I'm going through the hardest time in 13 years of my life.
Oh, dear.
- "An Embarrassing Worry". - She's 13 years old?
Do you solve only one worry?
I have a lot of worries. Can you solve all of them?
I'm embarrassed of my dad.
(I'm embarrassed of my dad.)
(The dads can relate to the story.)
"How do I look?"
"Dad, what's wrong with your hair?"
"What do you think? Don't I look like Gong Yoo?"
"This is Gong Yoo's hairstyle."
Gong Yoo, my foot. He looks like Oh Dal Su.
(He looks like Oh Dal Su.)
"Are you going to work in that outfit?"
"Of course. Clothes like these cheer me up."
He wears a shirt with the marine emblem in front,
and "Marine" on the back.
He goes to work and shopping in that shirt.
He wore it even on a trip to Jeju Island.
- Wouldn't I be embarrassed? - He sounds weird.
I once saw my dad in downtown when I was with my friend.
"Hey, isn't he your dad?"
"He looks so unusual."
"He permed his hair like a woman and is wearing a pink shirt."
"Is he wearing hot pants?"
Wouldn't I be embarrassed?
This is just a tip of the iceberg.
I'll tell you more embarrassing stories on the show.
(Dad, please stop it.)
How would you feel if your daughter is embarrassed of you?
- I went to a supermarket with her. - I see.
The cashier saw my youngest daughter and said,
"You look just like your grandpa."
(Oh no. He's her dad.)
- I got so angry. - Of course.
I said, "Just hurry up." I was really angry.
- Right. - She didn't understand what I said.
She said, "Are you shopping with your grandpa?"
My daughter asked me not to go to her school.
(I hate the nosy cashier!)
- She said it's the biggest crisis. - That's right.
- Crisis? - She's so embarrassed of her dad.
Let's meet her. Please come out!
(Who is the child who is embarrassed of her dad?)
(Walking briskly)
- She's cute. - Hello.
She's so cute. Come here.
Hello. I'm Shin Min Young. I'm in sixth grade,
and I'm worried because of my dad.
Why are you embarrassed of your dad?
My dad went to a hair salon to make his hair...
look like Gong Yoo's a month ago.
However, the hair stylist permed his hair with thin rollers.
He always asks me if he looks like Gong Yoo,
but he looks like my grandma from behind.
- Your grandma? - Your grandma?
He looks like his mom.
- I think he looks like my grandma, - He looks like his mom.
and my brother said he looks like Oh Dal Su.
To be honest, I don't like his hairstyle.
- Why is his shirt embarrassing? - Exactly.
He wears the shirt too often regardless of the occasion.
He goes to work in that shirt. He even wore it...
all day long when we went on a trip to Jeju Island.
- That's impressive. - Men who served in the marine...
- like wearing that shirt. - They're proud of it.
- They're proud of it. - I hate that he goes downtown too.
That's because he was a marine.
(I said I hate it.)
- You don't like what I said. - She seems frustrated.
She sighed looking like this.
(Come on.)
She thinks you are the same as her dad.
(He's the same as my dad.)
- Do you hate his shirt that much? - Yes, I do.
Why do you hate it?
He's wearing it right now. It doesn't look so weird.
(Do you really think so?)
(Sighing)
- She must really hate it. - Seriously,
she has resentment.
(It's not a simple complaint.)
Can't you just ignore it?
- Exactly. - He stands out too much to ignore.
The colors are too bright. Pink, baby blue, and so forth.
By hot pants, I mean...
- Are they too short? - Yes, they're very short.
He often wears them on a daily basis,
so I don't want to see that.
- Kids laugh at him... - They make fun of him.
- "Min Young, your dad is the best." - Yes, like that.
- Why make fun of his clothes? - I hate seeing kids talk about him.
When it comes to personality,
he doesn't seem so bad.
Nothing's wrong with a pink shirt if it suits him.
- Yes, he can wear it... - It doesn't suit him.
- "It doesn't suit him." - I just felt...
- how serious and sincere she was. - However...
(I guess pink really doesn't suit him.)
With the hot pants,
he wears brown dress shoes and goes out.
Brown shoes. If one dresses well, that will be really gorgeous.
- With a perm... - The perm, the marine T-shirt,
- and the hot pants. - Shorts.
- He wears formal shoes. - The brown shoes.
- Nobody's tried that style before. - Imagine.
- And the shirt too. - On top of that,
he's not even handsome.
He's not very tall either.
You're here to get your worry off your chest.
Why are you staring at me though?
- It's because of your hairstyle. - Exactly.
You can't ask her, can you?
- You must look in the eye with... - You should make eye contact.
Yes, you're right.
(When you're speaking with another, you should make eye contact!)
Would you have any worry from now on?
I'm afraid that my brother will copy him.
- You have a brother. - She's afraid that he'll copy him.
You have a younger brother, right?
- Yes. - There's still much time left...
until he copies your dad. He won't join the marine corps for long.
No, he's already copying him.
On what?
After taking a shower, my dad...
leaves the restroom with nothing on.
- What? - He's completely naked.
- He's a totally natural person. - Yes.
What about it?
- After leaving the restroom, - Does he walk around naked?
he keeps standing there like this.
- He stays seated? - He stands like this.
(He catches everyone's eyes.)
That won't be good for Min Young's sentiment.
- Exactly. - Yes, she's going through puberty.
- Her brother copies that. - Did you not talk about it...
with your dad?
- I did. - What did he say?
He said that he'll do whatever he wants because it's his house.
(We've been hearing that often.)
(I'm the king in my house!)
He only wears his underwear, but he says he's wearing it because of me.
- He says that while he comes out. - Yes.
Let's meet her father now. Nice to meet you.
Hello, I'm Shin Min Seob, Min Young's dad.
Nice to meet you.
My goodness.
The T-shirt from the marine corps.
Did you know that your daughter was embarrassed of you?
Not at all.
I...
- You had no idea? - You must be totally slow-witted.
I'm a totally ordinary person,
- so it's absurd that I'm here. - Clearly, he had no idea.
- His hairstyle isn't strange. - What is too much about him?
Nothing's wrong with your hairstyle.
- Thank you. - Why did you perm your hair?
Let's say that it's a process to find myself.
(Let's say that it's a process to find myself.)
- "Find myself". - "Find myself".
- It must be tough. - He's not ordinary.
- It must be hard for you. - It's a process to find myself.
After watching "Goblin" last winter,
I thought it's the perfect style for me.
Most people think that it's perfect for them...
- until they get a perm. - "This wasn't right for me."
That's right.
Do you think that you look like Gong Yoo?
With time, it'll look more like Gong Yoo's hair,
and it'll become a hairstyle of Terius later on.
Your daughter says that she hates your style.
Was there a reason why you stuck to it?
I believe that I'm the owner of my life.
- I'm the owner of my life - I'm the owner
- I'm the owner - That's right.
(You only live once.)
(Laughing)
- Speaking of which, he is... - Why do you keep wearing the T-shirt?
I worked at the marine corps in the early 2000s.
- Back then... - I thought the world was mine.
I was full of confidence.
However, after working for over 10 years,
I often lost my confidence.
With this T-shirt on, I gain my confidence from back then.
It's like Superman or Batman's suit to me.
I made this myself as well.
- You made it? - I cut the logo only.
I attached an overlock at the back.
- Does that make it the same? - I get the marine T-shirt,
- but you wear short hot pants. - The shorts.
The hot pants.
They're my shorts I wear exclusively for badminton.
They're short, but they're really comfortable.
Min Young said that I wear them at supermarkets and downtown,
but they're all my territories.
(So I don't care.)
- They're in my neighborhood. - Is that so?
(You go out like this?)
You go downtown looking like this.
- He looks like a middle aged lady. - That's right.
I get everything else. However, your daughter is almost grown up.
Why would you be naked after your shower?
That's right.
That's a bit strange.
Sports news is sometimes on when I come out from the shower.
When there's a cool scene,
I give a shout of joy. That might have made her misunderstand.
And then...
I didn't know where to look.
You have a daughter, so you should at least wear your underwear.
- You should be considerate. - We used to wash up together...
until two years ago.
She still looks like a baby to me.
- She's not though. - She is not.
- You should be careful. - You should care about that...
- for your daughter. - You should be considerate.
A specialist had said that there may be a side effect to that.
Of course.
I'll make an effort,
but habits don't change easily.
So you don't think you're causing any damage.
You can't just make an effort. You must change...
- now. - I'll make an effort.
What I'm worried about is...
You must change now.
- I'll change. - Those who are naked at home...
could take off their clothes elsewhere without even noticing.
- Right, like a habit. - How is your dad?
- In the balcony... - Balcony?
He takes off his clothes in the balcony?
He changes his gym clothes in the balcony.
He takes off his underwear too.
- People can see him from outside? - People would see him.
- Dad said nobody can see him, - Of course they can see him.
but I saw him scratching his belly on my way home from the academy.
Sir, you don't enjoy being naked, do you?
I don't enjoy it.
- I'm a former marine. - Yes.
Marine corps are excellent when it comes to concealment.
(He's a proud former marine.)
Why don't you cover yourself then?
- We can conceal very well. - You know that so well, but...
- Your daughter suffers. - I didn't mean to show others.
It's a detached house, so people can never see me.
I could see him clearly in between the two buildings.
- See? - She clearly saw you.
You should've concealed that.
Min Young, you want to go all the way, don't you?
- Why? - What was that?
(I'm sullen!)
Is your brother or your mother...
embarrassed of your dad?
- Min Young should answer. - Ask Min Young yourself.
- My mom... - Look at him and answer.
- She's shy. - It's her first time to see him.
(Her heart flutters.)
- Is he too handsome? - Well...
- What's the matter? - You stared at Chan Woo so easily.
Exactly.
- She can't look at Eun Woo. - That's right.
I suddenly feel irritated.
Tell us. Is your family embarrassed of your dad?
My brother finds him embarrassing, and my mom gave up on him.
She even gave up on him.
We'll meet other members of your family. Hello.
- Hello, Min Young's brother. - Hello.
Hello.
- How adorable. - Do you also have...
the same worry as your sister?
Yes, Min Young can see my dad's precious part...
Do you have a worry regarding your dad as well?
I was on my way to a stationary store. My dad had his hair permed,
and he was wearing a pink shirt...
with hot pants.
I was embarrassed because there were people I knew there.
They seem too short, and the T-shirt's color stands out,
so that creates such a strong impression to the kids.
Don't you plan on wearing long pants?
As I mentioned, it's in my neighborhood,
- so I think there's no problem. - It may be in your neighborhood...
Did you ever talk to your dad as a man to man...
that you want him to wear something else?
He's older than I,
so I can't defy him or show my irritation.
He also makes money...
to provide for my family...
- Did you teach him this? - My goodness.
- He's well-educated. - He taught him perfectly.
(What a tough day it is.)
Your daughter has grown much.
The fact that your husband stays naked...
must make you worry.
Her secondary sexual characteristics began to develop since early 2017.
"Mom, it makes me uncomfortable when Dad leaves the shower naked."
After she told me that, I told my husband about it.
I guess he does that before he realizes.
Is there any other embarrassing things other than his clothes?
My dad is a big-time coward.
- A coward? - He's a former marine though.
- He's a coward? - He's a former marine though.
My dad was peeing one day...
without turning on the light.
I'm also chicken-hearted, so I accompanied him...
to be less scared.
Upon seeing me, he screamed in shock.
- Upon seeing you? - I thought there was something...
behind me, so I ran toward him.
That made him become even more startled.
He thought a ghost had run toward him.
- A ghost attacked him. - It became worse.
This is something I don't understand.
He was watching TV with all the lights turned off.
My mom came out of her room and asked him...
what he was doing.
My dad was totally surprised.
He asked, "Why do you bring your hair down when you sleep?"
(Are you really a former marine who caught ghosts?)
Then how else is she supposed to sleep?
- He's really afraid of ghosts. - That would be scary.
Sir, while she was speaking,
- why did you keep your eyes closed? - Why did you close your eyes?
If you are surprised so easily,
you shouldn't be wearing the marine's T-shirt.
- Exactly. - That's right.
Such remark was made instantaneously.
- "Instantaneously". - Do you believe in ghosts?
No, I captured all the ghosts,
so there's no more left.
Sir, is there anything you're upset about with Min Young?
I'll give you a chance to defend yourself.
- He said, "wait and see". - Thank you.
Min Young expressed her affection...
and kissed me a lot before,
but it feels like our relationship is more distant now.
I feel a bit upset and uncomfortable.
In one morning, I pushed her butt with my foot...
as a joke to wake her up,
but she got upset with me.
I write in my journal when I'm emotionally stressed.
In a month...
- He's so feminine. - I keep a journal.
He's like a girl from the marine corps.
Back then, I wrote journal entries three days in a row...
- to control my mind. - He's tenderhearted.
You must be upset, but at that period,
you really need to be careful.
Kicking her butt to wake her up...
- could be shocking for your child. - Exactly.
At her age, she thinks that all men are scary and irritating.
They think that men are even scary.
Did you know about your dad's feeling?
- Yes. However, - You knew?
although he insists that he's a loving dad,
he's completely different when he plays games.
Once he starts playing, his eyes change.
If he loses, he goes to his room and doesn't come out.
- He becomes sullen? - He becomes sullen.
- How childish of you. - Come on, you're a marine.
You must think that your dad is like a little child.
Yes, I often talk about that with my mom.
- What do you say? - She says he's immature.
She says he's not mature?
You're closing your eyes often.
Sir, sir, sir!
I think he'll write in his journal every day for a week now.
- I was catering to my kids. - You were catering to them?
Why become sullen and not leave your room when you lose?
I am upset that she doesn't know how I feel about her.
What kind of dad would become sullen with his daughter?
He becomes sullen.
(Stop covering it up.)
When my husband plays with my kids, he's very good at catering to them.
He's a good dad.
However, it feels like I'm raising three children...
once in a while.
Violence at schools has become a problem these days,
so he teaches the children competitive spirit...
as well as swear words.
- What? - It's not just a simple swear word.
(This must be a dream.)
"If your friend says this kind of swear word,"
"you should say this in return."
(You must never lose a fight.)
- "You should also swear at him." - "Don't lose."
- For example, - Open your eyes.
he brings up a story of his high school years.
He demonstrates in front of my children.
This is really unfair too.
I'll tell you what happened when I was in high school.
I was eating my lunch during the break,
and some bullies came over and took it.
I taught the swear words that would be useful and effective.
(My goodness, sir.)
How do you feel when your dad teaches you the swear words?
- You're out of your mind! - Sir.
You can't close your eyes. What are you saying to your child?
- My gosh. - Don't open your eyes!
Close your eyes. Keep them closed for a long time.
- My kids laughed and liked it. - What are you talking about?
It's because they can't believe that you're saying such things.
"Will there be any dad in the world who teaches his kids swear words?"
Did you ever use what your dad taught you?
No.
When girls fight, swearing makes you a loser.
- Is that so? - That's right.
Of course.
Talking quietly without swearing and...
- roasting them is winning. - Logically...
- Roasting... - Roasting...
- You must roast them to win? - Exactly.
- Kids these days roast too. - Indeed.
Now, Min Young,
(She's back to being a shy girl.)
what do you want your dad...
to teach you other than swear words?
- Exactly. - I want him to have a normal...
style when it comes to his hair and outfits.
I want us to be considerate for each other.
I want us to respect each other.
- She's like an adult. - She's like an adult.
Son, say what you want to tell your dad.
No revealing your skin, and no swearing.
I love you, Dad.
"I love you, Dad."
(I love my kids.)
- He's a nice dad. - Exactly.
- His son is also really smart. - He is.
- They're so comfortable around him. - Will you join the marine corps?
I don't want to join the marine corps.
Why not?
I'm afraid that I'll become like this.
(He has his dad perfectly under his control.)
(The epiphany of an 11-year-old)
(His pride as a marine is shattered.)
- Oh, dear. - I wonder what will happen.
(Today's journal entry will be remembered for a long time.)
- Now... - What I'd really like to say...
is that I might have shown only the bad side of...
the marines in Korea.
- It's not like that. - I feel bad for the marine corps.
You're a really cool father.
- Exactly. - A friend-like father.
Your dad caters to you and plays with you together.
You should be happy to have...
- such a father like him. - That's right.
Is it a worry or not?
Aren't you embarrassed to be naked?
- They're my family, not strangers. - Right, they're not strangers.
- Exactly. - I'm a girl, so he must be careful.
She says that you should be more careful because she's a daughter.
That's it.
- I also think that it's a worry. - It's a worry.
If you respect each other just a bit more,
you'll resolve the issue easily.
Seeing these two...
- made me a bit jealous. - That's right.
They kept talking about...
what they find uncomfortable,
- but I felt how happy they are. - You're right.
Press the button if you empathize with Min Young's worry.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1, - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1,
- stop. - time's up.
Sir, say a few words to Min Young.
I learned how Min Young feels today.
I'll put a lot of effort to change.
Min Young, I really love you. I'll love you forever.
(Min Young, I love you.)
- He's cool. - He's good at relating to her.
(Her dad is the best.)
Show us how many votes her story got.
(The result)
(An Embarrassing Worry)
Did it get over 100 votes?
(Compared to the other worries, this one was rather cute.)
It got 93 votes.
"My Husband is Possessed"...
is the winner of the week.
("My Husband is Possessed" is the winner of the week.)
We will give the winner a 1,000-dollar gift certificate.
Until the day we are all worry-free...
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you! - Thank you.
("Remember" by 9muses)